I traveled to Raleigh, NC at the end of April to see my niece’s final dance recital at UNC Chapel Hill. The Star Heels performance on Saturday was fantastic. I so enjoyed watching this amazing young woman (who was graduating in 2 weeks) with her final performance – I’ve been watching her dance since she was a little girl. You can see the love and passion for dancing in every performance! That weekend – I also had a chance to re-connect with life long wonderful friends – my best friend from High School and one of my best friend’s from my time in TX (she is like a sister to me!). It was a fantastic weekend!

Sunday driving to the airport, I had a strange maybe 2 second strange feeling (no other way to describe it). I returned the rental car and the feeling happened 2 more times on the rental car bus. I arrived at the airport decided to sit down for a few minutes and the sensations continued. What did I do? I googled my symptoms! I had a seizure 3 years ago (one and only time) and thought the symptoms were a pre-cursor to one. It was NOT a Seizure!

There were a two decisions I made that day that I’m so grateful I made – I listened to my body as I knew something wasn’t right – I never went through security and flagged down a police officer to tell him I needed help! It probably saved my life! EMT’s arrived – my blood pressure was normal, pulse ox was normal, and my glucose was normal. What wasn’t normal? My heart rate! It was Elite Athlete Low – I have always considered myself an athlete (even when I haven’t exercised regularly) – but when I was playing competitive sports – I was never Elite!

I was alert the entire time (never fainted) and I was able to call my brother (who was at the airport with his family) who joined me with the EMTs. I was able to ask questions and advocate for myself and my brother advocated for anything I missed. One of the most important things I’ve learned over the last 3 years with healthcare – advocate, advocate, and advocate! Based on my heart rate – I need to be transported to an ER – I had two choices – a Regional Hospital or Duke University Hospital – I clearly chose Duke!!!

Why did I share the above? I believe I’m part of a generation who doesn’t want to waste a doctor’s time or go to the ER and it’s a False Alarm. This is a real thing – “In a 2018 British study, one in five people avoided going to the doctor because they didn’t want to ‘make a fuss’ or ‘waste time’ with something minor. This was even higher in women and middle-aged adults (source Cancer Research UK). Psychological barriers – like self-doubt and guilt (‘What if it’s nothing?’ or ‘I’m just overreacting’) contribute to delay – especially when symptoms are vague, like fatigue or dizziness. PS – I had fatigue, head rushes, and shortness of breath (I blamed it on the heat) the prior week at different times.

Delaying care due to fear of overreacting can mean missing early warning signs. Doctor’s would rather check out a false alarm vs. miss something serious.

Bottom Line – You know your body better than anyone else, listen to it, and I’m so grateful I did!